Lesson 1

Lección 19/29 | Tiempo de estudio: 40 Min
Lesson 1

Expressing feelings of love and rejection

In this unit we will learn the rules and usage guidelines for expressing feelings of love in English

Verb Forms:

"Love" is the main verb used to express deep affection or strong feelings towards someone.

Example:


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I love you.


Adjectives to Describe Love:

Various adjectives can be used to describe the intensity or nature of love, such as "deep," "passionate," "unconditional," or "romantic."

Example:

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I have a deep love for you.



Expressions of Affection:

Phrases and expressions can be used to convey love and affection, emphasizing the importance of the person in your life.

Example:

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You mean the world to me.



Expressions of Attraction:

Phrases and expressions can be used to communicate strong attraction and infatuation towards someone.

Example:

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I'm attracted to you.


Talking about Feelings:

Use phrases and expressions to convey your emotional state and the impact the person has on you.

Example:

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You make me so happy.


Expressing Commitment:

Use words and phrases to express your willingness to be committed to the person and the relationship.

Example:

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I'm committed to making this relationship work



Honesty and Openness:

Emphasize the importance of being honest and open about your feelings in a relationship.

Example:

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I want to be open with you about my feelings.



Respect Boundaries:

It's important to acknowledge and respect the other person's boundaries when expressing love.

Example:

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I understand and respect your personal space and boundaries.



Consent and Mutual Feelings:

It's crucial to ensure that both parties have mutual feelings and consent in a romantic relationship.

Example:

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I want to make sure we both feel the same way before moving forward


Remember that expressing love is a personal choice, and it's essential to consider the other person's feelings and boundaries. It's important to communicate honestly and openly, respecting both your own emotions and the emotions of the other person involved.


Expressing rejection:

1. Use phrases like "I'm sorry, but I don't feel the same way" or "I don't have romantic feelings for you" to gently and honestly convey a lack of reciprocal affection.

2. Say "I don't think we're compatible" to express that you believe you and the other person are not well-suited for a romantic relationship.

3. Use phrases like "I can't be in a relationship right now" or "I need some time for myself" to explain personal circumstances or emotional unavailability.


Additional considerations:

1. Expressing love and rejection should be done with kindness, respect, and sensitivity to the other person's feelings.

2. Use appropriate body language, such as maintaining eye contact and a warm tone of voice, to convey sincerity and empathy.

3. Be open and honest in your communication, but also consider the timing and context of your expressions to avoid unnecessary pain or confusion.


Activity

1. Read the following love letter and answer the questions: 



My Dearest Sussan,

I wanted to take a moment to express my deepest feelings for you. From the very first time we met, you captured my heart and filled my life with immeasurable joy and love. Your presence in my life has brought an incredible sense of happiness and completeness. Every day spent by your side is a blessing, and I cherish the moments we share together.


Questions


-Who is the letter addressed to?












-How does the writer feel about their partner?












-How has the partner impacted the writer's life?












-What does the writer cherish?